There are many books and literature in the marketplace. With the plethora of products there are also many agendas. Some of these agendas may supercharge your sex life, but destroy the spirit of oneness in your marriage. Typically those items that advocate ‘open marriage’ are not conducive to developing a spirit of oneness desired in a Christian marriage. These books may improve your sex life, but the emotional and spiritual alienation that is also produced often leave  the partners feeling more distant from each other than ever. In considering resources look into them carefully. Consider if the author has a successful marriage. Consider where the author is coming from and what their beliefs toward marriage are. Those beliefs will find their way into the material. Although the ‘anything goes’ mentality sounds nice, when the rubber meets the road, affairs and free-for-alls create dissension and alienation both within the partners and between them. Before you “do what the book says”, consider what direction it is taking you.

Best Regards,

Jeff Murrah

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