Many affairs develop as a result of opportunities created. In scripture, the admonition to make no provision for evil applies to affairs. Taking a few precautions can often prevent affairs from unfolding. Some things to consider include:
-Maintain communication with your spouse. If you are working late, call them.
-Do not visit bars or clubs when you are out of town by yourself.
-Avoid going out or being alone with members of the opposite sex.
– Do not wear provocative clothing or allow conversation to drift into sexual innuendo or provocative jokes.
-Avoid drinking when you are not with your spouse.
-Do not call old boyfriends or girlfriends. This also includes to not keep their pictures around either.
-Do not fantasize about relations with other people.
These are some simple steps that can be taken to minimize the opportunities for an affair to develop. Although there are times that affairs ‘just happen’, in most cases, the door of opportunity is left open for an affair to occur.
Best Regards,
Jeff
