Archive for July, 2007
If you have ever been to a baseball game or any other kind of sports you have likely asked yourself this question. Even in watching your child’s baseball game, when your team is behind, the kids are tired and the other team is just now picking up steam, increasing the margin of victory with each […]
Although this article is not about affairs directly, it does deal with sleeping around. The article looks at the lives of several English women in terms of their promiscuity. They actually tallied up the number of lovers each had and the results were surprising. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=465039
The article makes it clear how statistics can be misleading, since […]
After infidelity has been discovered there are many questions that you will find yourself facing. One question is “Should I stay of should I go?”. Such a question is misleading. What is it that such a question is asking? Are you questioning how committed you are to the relationship? Perhaps a more focused question is […]
In reading a work by a 18th century thinker, I was struck by his observation that there were two kinds of divorce. There is a divorce from bed and table, and there is a second kind where you are divorced from the chains. The second divorce is the equivalent of today’s legal divorce settlement. The […]
When you find yourself in the midst of recovering from your spouses affair, friends can be be either a help or a hindrance. It will be a time where you find out about the quality of friendships you have and the moral fiber of your friends. If your friends are like the associates of Sex […]
Here is a story that you don’t often hear about. The resolute spouse sued the man who stole his wife’s affections and WON. http://www.thenewsvault.com/cgi/news.pl?t=1057
The husband’s attorney used the ‘alienation of affection’ clause in the law, and pursued the case. The man was awarded compensation for the loss of his wife’s affection.
In another story, China is […]
During the aftermath of an affair, it is important to take good care of yourself. Since the affair becomes an obsession, many times people neglect their own self care. They don’t eat right, they don’t exercise, they don’t sleep well, etc. Besides not taking care of themselves physically, they do not take care of themselves […]
Another issues associated with affairs is how it influences ones thinking. While in the midst of an affair, the focus becomes very sensual and self-centered. It is this mindset that the resolute spouse often finds themselves fighting against.
How does one fight against this mindset?
The way to counteract this is to get them to look at […]
