Archive for October, 2007
Just when I thought I had heard just about all that can be said about adultery and affairs, a news story comes along with an angle I never imagined. In this story a judge ordered a reporter to do a public service interview regarding a polygamist then on trial. It is not bad enough that […]
I came across a website that covers the various indiscretions conducted by the commander in chief. Some of them I had not been aware of. I think you will find the article informative and thought provoking. It is not surprising that people in positions of power often misuse their influence and it gets sexualized. Once […]
In this news item, a divorced wife makes an attempt on her former husband’s life. The feelings stirred up by an affair are intense and can be long lasting. Sometimes those issues that seem long dead are harboring a potential bonfire that can overwhelm those involved. Refusing to talk about matters is one way to […]
Here is a list of books that others have recommended in dealing with affairs:
Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass
Private Lies by Frank Pittman
Adultery: The Forgivable Sin by Bonnie Eaker Weil
How Can I Forgive You? by Janice Spring
Each of these resources focuses on overcoming the affair rather than let the affair lead to a divorce.
Best Regards,
Jeff […]
What are the chances of my marriage surviving an affair? The latest research indicates that 2/3 of couples with affairs do not make it. When I look at that number, it is intimidating. I also realize that many lawyers and private investigators want that number high since it means more business. If you want to […]
A book that has come to my attention that deals with financial matters that often accompanies affairs is Money Drunk and Money Sober. The book lays out a 90 day program to turn the situation around. The authors understand that close association between addictions and money difficulties. If you have addictions or money problems, this […]
There is a strange relationship between contractions and affairs. The two are often found accompanying each other. Affairs thrive and grow in marriages where there are contradictions. If you have a marriage filled with contradictions, it would be beneficial to make changes and turn the inconsistencies into consistencies and reduce the likelihood of an affair […]
In the middle of the latest controversies at Oral Roberts University are reports of a wife having an affair with an underage minor. There is a growing trend of women having affairs with younger men. This episode is just the latest installment in a series of events of similar nature. Affairs are not victim-less crimes.
Best […]
An incident occurred in Austria where a jealous husband took action on suspicions that his wife was having an affair. The 76 year old jealous husband did a Lorena Bobbit on the suspected paramour and killed him. The incident was the outcome of a 20 year long affair. Although couples often look surprised when I […]
