Archive for November, 2007
In coping with the pain of an affair, it is common for some people to go about gaining all the details and information about what happened. Before going on a hunt for the sordid details, you need to be honest with yourself. What is your reason for wanting the details? What will having the details […]
When faced with the pain of an affair, it often seems that one is faced with a bottomless pit of pain. The hurt is deep and seems to go on in a never ending manner. The more one finds out about what happened, the more hurts there are. It seems like a nightmare that never […]
During the aftermath of an affair, it often seems as if ‘fear’ and the ‘unknown’ become your constant companions. Besides the fear that you have lost your spouse, there is a sense of feeling lost or bewildered. Although there are many people who will tell you to “do this” or “do that”, they are like […]
A major challenge in the aftermath of an affair is keeping ones head clear and heart calm. When news of the affair is realized, there is often a sense of helplessness. Some have compared the initial reaction to the experience of drowning. It contains elements of feeling overwhelmed and sinking. It is during this time, […]
I am not sure whether it is the entrepreneurial mindset, creativity or wickedness that develops the many creative ways to enter infidelity. I discovered a whole website dating service that caters to married people for affairs. The site will remain nameless. In perusing the testimonials, a common theme for people who jump into affairs is […]
Affairs, unlike other acts, stir strong reactions in people. Those around you will make judgments about what occurred and whether or not it was deserved. Without knowing the facts, decisions will be made within their minds. Since they make these choices based on their experiences and values, those around you will often not be objective […]
In a Kentucky court case, a husband (Stephen Malmer) sued to obtain the e-mails of his wife accused of adultery, who was a state employee. The court ruled that the State of Kentucky had to release the e-mails between her and her reported paramour. This is a new precedent on privacy. The resolute spouse claimed […]
A megachurch in the Atlanta area is in the news at the center of a massive sex scandal. Affairs have a destructive effect. They not only run families, and the lives of the parties involved, they destroy churches and communities. In posting this story, it is my hopes that people think twice before choosing to […]
Man Uses Nintendo Wii to catch unfaithful Wife
A man caught his cheating wife after discovering the play history of his Nintendo Wii game console.
Tony (last named withheld), who served a year of active duty in Iraq, had a Wii sent to him while on duty before shipping the console back to the U.S. leading […]
Infidelity is a hurt that never seems to go away. The pain will subside for a few days and then a song, or driving past a particular location and “Wham!” the pain returns. Like many sin-based behaviors, there are often patterns associated with Infidelity and its pain. You may find that when you return to […]
