Archive for January, 2008
In China, news comes out concerning an affair gone real bad. A 19-year old college student filmed her boyfriend killing and dismembering her former married lover. This is a graphic representation that affairs are dangerous to your health, especially in China.
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In dealing with affairs, besides the emotional damage that each spouse and the children experience, there is also significant damage done to truth. Truth is often one of the early casualties in dealing with affairs.
I see problems with truthfulness occurring on several levels. On the first level, there is the whole denial of the affair. […]
Now that 2007 is gone, one can go back and look at what happened. Infidelity expert Ruth Houston who is out of New York, posted her top 10 infidelity stories of 2007. I found her list interesting, but my own list has some differences.
1. Gerald Ford’s posthumous biography addressed the Clinton adultery matter and Ford’s […]
High tech hardware is no longer just something for James Bond movies and homeland security. These days they are used in dealing with affairs. Spouses on both sides of the adultery issue are utilizing state of the art the art technology in dealing with affairs. Adulterers are using the technology to hide their actions while […]
Affairs are often filled with secrets. Besides the secrets, they are also filled with lies and denial, which comes in many forms. Learning how to deal with the denial is a major challenge for many couples.
The first denial is denying what is occurring or what happened. There is often a gap in time between when […]
One of the most pernicious of the scars associated with adultery is the one on the soul of the person involved. Even after the spouse has forgiven them, (assuming they are not psychotic or a sex addict) they often carry a heavy emotional burden. Many assume that the emotional burden is only concerning the guilt […]
In dealing with chemical dependency, I often remind the addicts, that after the drugs are out of the body, then you have to get them out of your head and out of your heart. This same principle applies to affairs, for both the resolute spouse and the infidel. Once the affair is over, you will […]
In perusing the news, I came across an article excusing infidelity. The article is entitled Infidelity is just human. The author views humans as mere animals who give into their primal urges. She views infidelity as part of these primal urges. Although infidels will like such articles, their content is misleading. By justifying the behavior […]
The future forecast regarding infidelity is ominous. It seems that the internet is being tapped to make swinging and affairs easier to occur. In previous days, in order to ’swing’ a person swapped with an acquaintance, which were often neighbors or associates. There were some swinger’s clubs, but in order to gain entrance, a person […]
Talk about a shock. A husband in Warsaw, Poland decided to visit the local brothel, which was not a good move, but which led to more surprises. On his visit to the brothel, he discovered that his wife was among the ladies providing services. The incident led the couple to seek a divorce after 14 […]
