Trust is a decision. It does not occur automatically or by instinct. Remember the first time you trusted your partner? What did it take? Probably, your love enabled you to trust your partner. Yet, deep within yourself, trust is a major decision in your life.

 

With this love, you felt like you can achieve anything and you can easily deal with your partner. As you fell deeper in love, you became even more attached and felt a deeper level of trust with each other.

 

You might have been shocked when you learned about the affair that rocked your marriage. For a time, you could not think clearly and you felt like you can no longer trust your partner.

 

Love cannot be easily forgotten. If you and your partner are willing to work it out, why don’t you work on your marriage and rebuild your trust with each other? It is not easy to do that but it is a decision. With such a decision, you can hold on to your love and your partner can also start earning your trust again. The process may be difficult and may take some time, yet, if you decide to trust again, everything else will follow if you would work things out. 

 

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