Archive for March, 2008

Time off is a good way to rethink about your life and make an honest assessment of where you are in life now. Given the busy lifestyle that you have, it might be a little difficult to take a time off. Yet, if an affair recently rocked your life, you have no choice but to […]

 

 “Forgiveness is a crazy idea! Whoever started telling others to forgive should experience firsthand what it is like to be betrayed, to be hurt deeply, and then tell others to do it!”
 
Your heart and your mind might be screaming these sentiments because of an affair that rocked your marriage recently. True enough, you have to […]

 

Although time may heal all wounds, it would be better if you actively seek the salve that would hasten the healing of your wound. The wound that an affair causes is definitely deep enough to cause rift between couples. Sometimes this rift seems irreparable and irreconcilable.
 
Lost trust does not come back automatically, rather, there should […]

 

Wendy Dager of the Ventura County Star Newspaper wrote an intriguing column on the prevalence of divorce.  Although this is not a divorce blog, it does deal with affairs, and there is a HIGH correlation between affairs and divorce. In the article Wendy raises concerns about what the divorce rate will be among the grandchildren. […]

 

In a recent article in the Scotsman, researchers are finding that affairs are on the increase. The increase in affairs is not surprising to most people. The other part of the article, where it discuses how the guilt related to affairs is difficult for those involved in what I find noteworthy. Despite all the ‘free […]

 

New York Governor Eliot Spitzer is in the midst of controversy, amidst the discovery of his using a prostitute. There is some speculation that he may resign  his office in the aftermath of this disclosure.  He and his wife were both emotionally shaken up by the disclosure.
The prostitute episode occurred as part of a business […]

 

Some spouses react with anger when their partner just looks at the contents of their cell phone. In this situation from China, a spurned wife burned the 400 cell phones in their business. If you think it was an invasion of privacy when your wife checked your cell phone, keep in mind that it could […]

 

In Italy, a judge ruled that a married woman can lie to the police about her sexual activity in order to retain her honor. It raises questions about whether or not husbands can lie about their affairs to the police as well.
affairs, Affairs in the News, cheating, honor, infidelity, Italy, lying, philanderingIf you enjoyed […]

 

Adultery stories are running rampant in the past few days. In Canada, a Baptist minister is embroiled in an adultery situation and in New York, controversy is erupting concerning an autobiography that details the adulterous behavior of a New York bishop.  In Colorado, the Fort Collins area is dealing with rampant adultery and subsequent murder […]

 

In expanding the resources available to those dealing with the pain of infidelity, I have posted several hub pages on various Infidelity related topics.
Is it lying or denial?  This hub deals with discerning whether the behaviors you are dealing with are plain and simple lying or something else.
Is it love or love addiction? This hub […]