Archive for April, 2008

Forgiveness is an oft-repeated word you about in the church, in self-development workshops and groups, and even in talk shows. Yet, beyond the usual tirades and yaddas about it, a lot of people e still wonder “How” to go about actually forgiving someone. If you also think about the seriousness that infidelity causes, you would […]

An old saying is that “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”. That saying has many applications in dealing with infidelity. In Australia, a woman wrapped feces in newspaper and set it ablaze on the front porch of her husband’s paramour. The fire in turn set the house on fire. Many times the fires […]

I recently became aware of the book, Lust in Translation: Infidelity from Tokyo to Tennessee. In reading a review of the book, it sounds fascinating in that the review discusses which nations have the highest rates of infidelity.The author, Pamela Druckerman has found some fascinating trends. The book may not give you the specific skills […]

The process of forgiving is not an easy one. It is easier to get even and to remain angry at your spouse long after the offense has been made. You may not want anything to do with them. You may find yourself saying “There is no way I could ever live with that cheat”.

Forgiveness […]

 
Learning to live together in a marriage is a continuous process. Sometimes it is easy, oftentimes it is not. Yet, the complexity and the difficulty multiply if an affair occurs in a marriage. If your marriage had been rocked recently by an affair, as a couple, you need to make some tough decisions and commitments […]

It hurts when you discover that your spouse had an affair. It is a personal betrayal filled with broken promises and shattered dreams. If there is any heart-shaking, gut-wrenching problem which shakes us to the core of our being, is going through an affair. While enduring the pain it is difficult remembering that there are […]