Archive for May, 2008
In checking my e-mails, I was accosted by the usual assortment of ads promising how my love life will totally turn around with someone’s product. Like Superman, I will last longer, be bigger, make her happier, etc. It hit me that many people actually believe these myths. If that pill and the sexual fireworks are […]
The attorney Charles Adams has recently written two articles on polygamy (article 1, article 2) . The articles cover the history of polygamy and its current revival. The articles are informative and do not pull any punches. They provide the history and thinking behind this behavior. These are good articles for those wondering “How could […]
Infidelity is not something limited to politicians and rock stars. In the latest round of infidelity disclosure, Roger Clemens admitted to his wrong doings. The pitcher, Roger Clemens has worked at improving his community and establishing himself as a role model for youths. His infidelity tarnishes his image. Americans and people around the world know […]
What is the trigger for the revenge? Once you have identified the trigger, take a closer look at it. There is one type of revenge that occurs when you are reacting to an attack. In such situations, a person feels threatened from an actual attack. There has been an actual attack that you are responding […]
In many ways, revenge is an extended anger. Healthy anger is intense and short lived. It is usually triggered by threats or frustrations. These same two elements, threat and frustration play a key role in understanding revenge. If you are seeking revenge, one of the ways needs to overcome it is to understand what triggered […]
The news personality, Barbara Walters is releasing her new autobiography. She will also been on Oprah promoting her book and possibly talking about her affairs. Since she is a celebrity, her affair is being presented as something positive. Affairs are always devastating. They ruin lives, families and careers. In times past, there was a name […]
In Nairobi, a recent article in their paper advocated polygamy as a solution to infidelity. This is like throwing gasoline on a fire. Legitimizing sexual license is not going to improve the self control needed in a marriage.
If the men are not going to be loyal to their wives in the first place, giving […]
Revenge is powered by fantasies and hurt. These two ingredients combine to make revenge possible. Since both are needed to keep revenge going, stopping them will reduce the likelihood of revenge. The fantasies often involved inflicting pain, paybacks and sufferings. At a deep level people often want to make their spouse suffer the same pain […]
