In the recent devastation of Hurricane Ike and the subsequent recovery, I was reminded of the nature of recovery. Recovery takes time. Recovery is often uncomfortable, taking us way out of our comfort zones and to places that we never dreamed we would be. There are embarrassing questions and things that you would not discuss in public are now having to be discussed openly.

Once the information is out in the open, it does not mean that the problem is over or resolved. If anything, it only means that now it is dealt with publically. The recovery will take time. Even months after the pain of the affair is known, it takes months and years to recover from the pain. Each day the pain it fades a little, yet continues like an incessant aching. There are things that trigger more intense moments.

Best Regards

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