Archive for November, 2008
If you want to be notified the next time I write something, sign up for email alerts or subscribe to the RSS Feed. Thanks for reading. Years ago, the prophet Moses stated “Be sure your sins will find you out”. I was reminded of this over the Thanksgiving holidays. During this time, I reviewed […]
One of the issues that complicates recovery from an affair, is when there are other issues with recovery. When a person is struggling with addiction to alcohol or drugs, the pain of an affair is even more difficult to deal with. In such populations, the agenda is often one of avoiding pain, rather than facing […]
With the holiday season around the corner, the possibility of affairs increases. The question soon arises as to whether or not you are at risk for an affair.
1. Do you or your spouse spend large quantities of time away from home?
2. Do you or your spouse take frequent business trips?
3. Do you or your spouse […]
One of the dangers of the internet, and especially social network sites is that many people use them to stalk others. This feature brings an element of danger to any affair, whether it is virtual or otherwise. The ability to stalk means that the spurned lover may hunt down your partner or even the resolute […]
I have written several postings on the use of technology and affairs. In a recent news article, the latest offering from Apple, the iPhone has been used in a cheating situation. The accused claims that his iPhone had a glitch, which sent a questionable picture of him to a female’s e-mail account. Although the spouse […]
Although jokes are made that it does not hurt to look, when it comes to affairs, looking can be dangerous. Consider for example, that in most major purchases, the first action is the look. Whether it is a car, home, or other major purchase, it all begins with a look. If the look was limited […]
A common phrase heard in dealing with cheating and affairs is “You make me sick!”. Sensations associated with nausea and gastric disturbances are commonly associated with affairs. One of the reasons is that such sensations are often associated with the keeping, betrayal and revealing of secrets. Since cheating and secrets often go with each other, […]
It often seems that people are interested in religion and spirituality AFTER and affair occurs. At that point, they want the comfort and solace associated with religion and spirituality. It is as that time, they want their cake and wish to eat it as well. They want the comfort, but not the responsibilities that go […]
One of the hallmarks of cheating behavior is deception. People may refer to this deception as lies or delusions, although those are nothing more than close cousins of deception. The whole cheating relationship begins with deception. The deceptions may be from one party or both. It may also be either self-deception or acting to deceive […]
