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Although the thought of parental meddling seems odd concerning an affair, the threat is very real. When affairs occur, many adult children still consult with their parents at some time during the ordeal. Although the parents were likely a part of the wedding ceremony and signed the guest book, they soon forget what that meant. By signing the guest register, and being part of the ceremony, they are agreeing to help keep the couple together. Some parents forget what that means. Rather than help the couple stay together through the crisis, they work toward separating them. Some parents do this in an overt manner, while others are sneaky and do their work covertly. Although the parents claim that their children have no respect for the institution of marriage, they themselves disregard the institution when they work toward splitting the couple apart.

It is common that parents will side with their children, yet they have an obligation to work for restoration rather than steer the children to the divorce court. This may involve confrontation of unacceptable behaviors, keeping their peace at times and forgiving rather than taking up offenses.

In cases where parents forget their obligations, steps may need to be taken that will establish clear boundaries in the situation.

Best Regards,

Jeffrey Murrah

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