Archive for February, 2010
If you want to be notified the next time I write something, sign up for email alerts or subscribe to the RSS Feed. Thanks for reading. One of the weird things that I have encountered with affairs is the strong similarities between the infidels spouse and the lover. Although they may deny it, the […]
In dealing with affairs, I often encounter those who insist that their swapping and polyamorous lifestyles are healthy and ‘natural’. They espouse the reasons for their positions, and justify their choices. Although the discussions are often lively, when they get honest, those lifestyles are often filled with confusion, torn loyalties, emotional binges, and insecurities. The […]
Many couples wait until the damage is massive before they decide to work on their marriage. After the spirit of oneness and tenderness is destroyed, they wonder if they can ever get that back. They delay taking action until the pain reaches a level which they can no longer tolerate. The time to take action […]
One of the potential dangers with affairs is that of stalkers. There are many people who are pleasant enough on the outside, yet once their passions are stimulated become a monster. The monster may be the lover, spouse of a lover, or a wandering spouse. What starts as an obsession soon escalates to controlling. The […]
Google has introduced another product that is sure to impact relationships. Google Buzz (which is their social network service) allows people to snoop on private gmail accounts by seeing who people write to the most. The service launched on February 9, yet its release was surrounded by controversy. Buzz connects you automatically with anyone who […]
When an affair is suspected or found out, many couples ask the wrong questions. Rather than asking “What can I do to save my marriage?” , “What will save my marriage?” or “What is my marriage worth?” they instead quibble about “What does a counselor cost?”, “What does a private eye cost?” or “How much […]
In the aftermath of an affair, it is common to experience self-doubt. After the shock of the news hits you, the world is suddenly different. You may wonder about what is ‘really’ true’ and what else is a lie. There is an unreal sense of everything around you. You may even find yourself questioning your […]
One of the misnomers in society is “gentleman’s clubs”. Such establishments are not oriented toward traditional gentlemen (one having manners, morals and good character) by any means. The atmosphere is often filled with activity which masks the loneliness that many patrons are seeking to overcome.
The environment is one that encourages gratification of sensual desires. The […]
Many times the definition of cute changes under the influence of alcohol. People that were considered ‘cute’ have a way of changing. With the consumption of alcohol, the meaning of ‘cute’ changes into “I’ld be willing to sleep with him/her”. Alcohol and drugs have a way of changing perception and lowering inhibitions. Although it may […]
Knowing the price tag of an item before one purchases it often helps in determining whether or not one is obtaining a ‘good deal’. There are even groups like Consumer Reports and Underwriters Laboratories which provide information to consumers to help them make good choices. Although these services are available for products, there are no […]
