How far is too far?

You likely allow your family members more leeway than you would a stranger. This leeway often includes tolerating cheating-like behavior. In the name of ‘love’ you may find yourself turning a blind eye to their behaviors that you don’t feel comfortable about.

In the case of cheating, the old expression of “give them and inch and they will take a mile” is often the path things go. What you are willing to tolerate in the name of ‘love’, the cheater often interprets as ‘approval’ or condoning. When you ‘allow’ them to stretch the limits, they will continue testing limits. The more you stay quiet, the further and further those limits will continue.

So how far is ‘too far’?

My answer is when you are no longer their top priority.

If they are more interested in gratifying selfish desires than in respecting you-it’s too far.

When they are engaged emotionally to another person-it’s too far.

When they routinely lie to cover their actions-it’s too far.

When they are wanting to included you in their swinging/cheating/wildness-it’s too far

When they endanger your health-it’s too far.

When they ruing the reputation of your family-it’s too far.

When they talk you into dressing like a slut or doing slutty things, it’s too far.

When you have lost yourself, your dignity and self-respect, it’s too far.

Although you may have allowed things to go too far, it is not too late. Take action NOW!

Start turning your marriage around. Regain the lost self-respect and get the help you need. You can order a copy of the e-book, Surviving Your Partners Affair and in ten minutes be starting down the road of reclaiming your life and your dignity.

Four other steps you can take right now include:

1. Start setting boundaries on what you will no longer accept.

2. Take care of yourself emotionally, physically and spiritually

3. Get out of bed and get busy.

4. Rather than hope for things to change, take action and start the change process.

If you need something more intense, the webinar on “Sure Fire Secrets to Surviving Your Partners Affair” provides even more answers.

Best Regards,

Jeffrey Murrah

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