When I read the headline that Bill Clinton was named “Father of the Year“, I wanted to toss my cookies. I asked how can a philanderer like him be given such an award? The National Father’s Day Committee said they chose him due to his “profound generosity, leadership and tireless dedication to both his public office and many philanthropic organizations,”. He has been involved in many philanthropic efforts and shown dedication. No one can contest that he has been very active in such ventures. It says a great deal about society how they are willing to overlook adultery when you are involved with the right groups and have the right appearances. Bill Clinton, like many cheaters often overcompensate for their cheating by doing ‘good deeds’. Sadly, the media and popular culture often let cheaters off the hook when they have done their share of good deeds.
Cheaters want the world to think that they are ‘good people’, despite how they have destroyed their own families. They have sacrificed their families and marriages on the altar of public service and philanthropy in an effort to remove the stains of their infidelity. I can and do forgive him, but the dishonor of his act has tarnished his reputation and family. It is tragic that the media no longer want men and women of ‘real character’ who are loyal to their wives and families, but instead honor those people who have ‘good intentions’ or do a lot. There is a big difference between doing good and being good. Society will continue wrestling with infidelity as long as they reward cheaters with honor, while ignoring those husbands and wives whose fidelity remains intact.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
