There will be times that your spouse, or maybe even your don’t want to know about the status of relationships or where you stand. Knowing where you stand can be a scary place.
When you know the actual status of a relationship, there’s no more guess work. You know whether you’re in or out, whether it’ll work or not or even whether it is still alive or dead.
One of the things that makes knowing where you stand in a relationship is the realization of what you are, where the world is and who you are. If you don’t like taking honest looks at such matters, knowing the real status of your relationship can be frightening.
Perhaps you may be one of those couples who intentionally keep their relationship ill-defined so that you never have to deal with such questions. This often allows you to avoid the discomfort of such questions.
That works until there’s an affair. An affair forces you to have to be honest about your relationship and the true status of it.
Is your marriage working?
Is it worth saving?
What kind of marriage do you really have?
These are serious, yet unsettling questions. Answering them means that whatever fantasies you had, have to be put aside. The dreams of ‘happily ever after’ now have to be examined.
Another aspect of knowing the status of your marital relationship, is that you have to honestly appraise yourself. You expect your spouse to be honest, yet that means that you have to be honest with yourself as well.
Are you as lovable as you think you are? Are you as good a communicator as you think you are? Are you as caring as you think you are?
There may be blind spots that you are either not aware of or not wanting to admit. Knowing where you stand in the relationship can be a scary.
Although it’s scary, once you know, you become aware of what you need to do. You can take steps to improve things when you have clear idea of what you need to change.
In the download “Affair Recovery Workshop“, you can put those changes into action. The workshop guides you in what to do, how to do it and WHEN to do it. Messing up on any of these can make recovery from an affair messier than it needs to be.
Getting the recovery tasks out of order means you’re at risk for getting emotionally stuck or getting locked into perpetual conflict with your spouse.
Just click on the link, complete the form and in minutes you’ll be on your way toward making changes.
Best Regards,
Jeff
