Questions about Energy Fields and Affairs

In talking about affairs yesterday, the topic of energy came up. I hadn’t considered the role of energy in dealing with affairs before. Although affairs are not often discussed in terms of energy, they may need to be.

Affairs can either energize you or drain you, depending on what role you are in. Consider a couple of questions:

How much energy will you spend on dealing with the affair today? How will you know when you have spent enough? Where do you get your energy?

For the cheater, the affair is a recharging. Their energy level is elevated. The problem is that the kind of energy they get from an affair is not a good type. Energy gained from an affair always brings negative results.

Researchers are also finding that your own personal energy field is impacted by your relationships, including affairs. That means that an affair either increases harmonics or disrupts them.

The cheater may find compatible harmonics with the lover, yet the result is that the energy of their relationship with you changes as well. You may sense that they ‘feel different’.

If you are the one who was cheated on, you face some choices regarding energy. Complaining and scheming will energize you, yet like the affair, they thrive on a dark, negative energy.

Those options may give you a spark, yet those sparks often lead you to a darker place. The darker the place, the more energy it will eventually take from you.

There are many tasks involved in dealing with an affair. Just getting in touch with your emotions requires energy. Expressing them often takes even more energy. Praying about the situation takes energy.

The big difference is that praying and expressing emotions often transforms the energy. It takes negative energy and transforms it into another type of energy.

The transformed energy is less toxic than the what you had before. In many ways, you will have to detoxify your emotions and thoughts in order to remove negative energy. It requires effort, yet this effort always leads to better results.

The cheater will also have to learn about how to rid themselves of negative energy if things are going to turn around.

Consider where you get your energy and how you use it. You will need energy to change your marriage. Any change requires energy.

The bigger the change, the more energy is required, and the bigger the stakes in finding the right kind of energy.

One way of re-harmonizing is by trusting them again. My video, “How Can I Trust You Again?” gives you ways of rebuilding trust in your marriage.

Best Regards,

Jeff

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