Advice Worth Paying For

On occasion, I receive snarky email responses. The most recent one was ” This is ricidulous to pay for advice.  I am sorry but if you are that desperate to make money you need another profession.”   I wasn’t sure how to be ‘ ricidulous’, so I looked it up in the dictionary of auto-correct.

It said something about being in a hurry to spout off without considering your words or their spelling. It struck me as ironic with the ‘Freudian slip’ aspect of her word error simultaneously conveying a termination (ric) and a falling back (recede) in a relationship.  (Is this another case of ‘out of the heart the mouth doth speak?)

Besides that, I thought about what this woman said, and determined “She deserves a response.”

Investments in your relationships, especially your marriage always pays dividends. You pay for counsel  in banking, investing, legal matters, and business consulting. It’s only logical that when you  consider the most important relationship in your life, that you’re willing to invest in the best advice available.

Think about it. Would you rather pay for the counsel of the nearest therapist in town who occasionally deals with an affair besides the one they had or an international expert who spent years dealing with affairs?

A lesson I learned from my wife is that it pays to learn from the best. Over the years, this has been proven to me time and time again. When I attend workshops, seminars or need business help, I seek out the best, most knowledgeable people for relationship information regarding addictions and brain functioning.  I know that those issues are important when it comes to understanding affairs. Those times I cut corners and went with cut rate people, I ended up with inferior lackluster information.

The adage, you get what you pay for is true on many levels. When it comes to relationships, many people want to get by with ‘no-cost help’ they hope turns their lives around, rather than investing in advice that generates positive foundational improvements in their relationship. Perhaps this lady just wants to ‘get by’ rather than really find healing for her marriage.

I am desperate. I don’t want you or anyone else to continue suffering.  I know what’s at stake and how an affair is a life-changing event for you. For some of you, it’s a matter of life and death. Just read the paper and you’ll see how serious the situation is. You may even be one of those desperate for answers.

The good news is, there are solutions. Your marriage can change. An affair does not have to mean the end of your marriage.

You don’t have to stay in that state of desperation where your marriage hangs on a thread each day. You don’t have to continue wondering if your marriage can survive the affair. You don’t have to be at wit’s end wondering what to do.

The Affair Recovery Workshop is where I’ve collected the best of ‘what works’ from the best in the counseling field, neuroscience, how addictions work including interventions, brain hacks and relationship hacks packaged in unique sequence designed for helping you through the affair with a minimal amount of conflict and maximum results.

Best Regards,

Jeff

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One Response

  1. Worth it but so much freely given for those who can’t afford it she might consider thanking you when she calms down.

    I have appreciated your free counsel

    But even when people do pay for help they still must look into solutions and apply them

    And you really can only change yourself ..many ” adultery only suggest ways to manipulate to get the spouse back while there is little or change of heart in them and that remains a problem

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