Considering the outcome of Affair choices

One event that happens to me when I travel is getting lost. Getting lost in a foreign land where you don’t speak the language, don’t know their customs and only have a cursory knowledge of their traffic laws is stressful.

I can tell you that navigating roads where you drive on the left side of the road are easier to manage that where you drive on the right side. Getting lost is usually temporary.

Even though it’s temporary, when it’s after dark and you’re driving through what appears to be a rough part of town, being lost makes me uneasy.

The most recent time this happened, we were traveling roads hated by rental car companies up and down mountains looking for landmarks in the fog of Costa Rican coffee country. When you can’t see the road signs, it makes getting found challenging.

My wife usually has comments that help calm me down. With questions like “What’s the worst that can happen?”, I start coming to my senses. Her question reminds me that in situations like getting lost, it’s important taking mental stock of the situation.

I consider, “What’s the worst, best and most likely outcome in those situations?

Typically, the worst never happens. The best, gives me hope and the most likely helps keep my wits about me. This strategy is helpful whenever you find yourself in uncharted territory outside of your comfort zone.

The stage of affair recovery that’s uncharted territory for most of you, is facing the challenge of affair relapse. In those situations, considering what’s the best, worst and most likely outcomes will help you and your spouse find your way.

Emotions take you to extreme positions. They have you going from one extreme to another. That’s why you need some clarity when it comes to affair relapse.

Considering what’s the best, worst and most likely outcomes regarding the affair along with the risk of relapse is an important part of committing to the marriage and affair recovery. This strategy is even MORE important in preventing affair relapse.

In my video “Preventing Affair Relapse“, I address the risks and challenges you’ll face. With the information I share, you can have confidence in your ‘most likely’ outcomes based on knowing what you are up against.

Without any awareness of the risks associated with affair relapse, you can find yourself falling into the potholes of hopelessness or be confused not knowing what are the high risk situations you need to look out for.

The risk of Affair Relapse doesn’t have to leave you living in fear of the worst possible outcome. There are things you can do and the video guides you through them.

Best Regards,

Jeff

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