Do you think I should forgive?

There are times each of us has bad days. In all likelihood, you have more bad days than great days.  Although you want great days, it’s in learning ways of making it through those bad days that you make progress.

Christine was having one of those bad days. She was still reeling from the news of her husband’s affair. Eventually she grew tired of hurting and saw a counselor. After several tearful minutes, she looked up at her therapist and asked “Do you think I should forgive?

Her therapist, Dr. Bob, sat in silence for a moment. This was a common question he often heard. After a moment of silence, he replied “I don’t have that answer. You’ll have to decide for yourself how forgiving or not forgiving works for you.

Here she was looking for an answer and instead, she gets a whole new question. Christine’s bad day has no relief in sight. There was going to be no easy way out of her pain.

Dr. Bob wanted her to consider whether or not forgiveness was worth it in her situation. He knew that many people forgive too quickly and too much.

Christine thought about Dr. Bob’s counsel and took a hard look at whether or not forgiving her cheating husband would work for her.

She also wanted to know how to forgive along with how it worked.

Forgiveness is not something you want to rush into in affair recovery. Sure it cuts the emotional tension, but when done wrong, it stops some of the important healing when done too soon or done improperly.

If you think forgiveness will work for you and are ready for it, do you know how to do it?

In the video, “Forgiveness: Stop the Pain, Tear down the Walls and Remove the Roadblocks”, you’ll learn ways of forgiving where you let go of the hurt. You’ll also learn the BIG differences between repentance and forgiveness.

Getting the two areas confused has often led to confusion and interrupted healing. When going through affair recovery you don’t want it to be an emotional merry-go-round. You don’t want to continue repeating the pain again and again.

Learning how to forgive effectively prevents those merry-go-rounds from happening in your recovery. Order your copy today.

Best Regards,

Jeff

 

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