Why didn’t I see that before?: Signs of an unhealthy marriage

Have you ever noticed that it’s easier seeing unhealthy behavior in other people’s marriages than it is seeing it in yours? Relationship blind spots make seeing unhealthy behavior in your own marriage challenging.

If you’re like most people, you don’t see the blind spots until an affair happens. You only see the dangers after being hurt. You may even ask yourself “Why didn’t I see that before?

Hurt has ways of waking you up to unhealthy behaviors. It grabs your attention.

Even though hurt wakes you up, you may still not see all the signs of an unhealthy marriage.

That’s why I’m going to share a list of the characteristics of an unhealthy marriage.

-No longer fun

-Spouses feel controlled

-Jealousy

-Silent Treatment

-Resentment

-Feelings of being taken for granted

-Using violence and threats to get your way

If your marriage has any of these qualities, action is needed NOW. These are danger signs, not just warning signs. When these show up, your marriage is in trouble.

When these signs are present, your marriage is no longer in the caution zone, it’s in the DANGER ZONE. When these bad behaviors become habits, the problems are entrenched.  It’s  no longer ‘just a phase’, it’s a real problem.

Each of these can be dealt with if you don’t wait. In the download ‘Affair Recovery Workshop’, I’ll guide you in making changes that matter in your marriage. Rather than just making a few cosmetic changes, I’ll guide you in knowing what to look for, what things the two of you need to discuss and ways of keeping those healthy changes in place.

If you are like most couples, you want a better marriage, but aren’t sure where to make changes. You need someone to point out what to look for so that you can get started.

Most couples can find solutions and work things out between them when they have good coaching. Even the two of you can work many problems out when you know what specific areas where changes are needed.

The workshop provides you with clear directions on key areas for transforming your marriage. Making changes in your marriage no longer has to be a mystery that you guess at.

Best Regards,

Jeff

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