If there’s a day for positive vibes, its Valentine’s Day. If no one has wished you a happy Valentine’s Day, I hope you and your spouse have a good one.
There is something powerfully healing in your marriage relationship. There’s a power there that changes you.
The problem is that when you start monkeying with it, that same healing power transforms into a destructive force.
Affairs turn the powerful forces binding the two of you into a destructive force. An act designed for enhancing your relationship becomes just the opposite with an affair.
The bonding starts feeling like chains. Attraction turns into repulsion.
Those powerful forces change their impact when engaged in outside of their healing context.
Think about the many symptoms that come about when this happens. The elevated heart rate, increased blood pressure, slowed digestion and depressed mood remind you that something’s not right.They signal you that something needs attention.
The person who should bring the most healing in your life is now the one that irritates you the most.
The good news is that your marriage has strength in it that can being healing to those areas impacted by the destructive force. Your marriage doesn’t have to be a nightmare for each of you.
How you and your spouse react to the affair and deal with it makes a huge impact on its effects and how long they last. The wounds can be healed.
Sure, there are still some scars, yet the pain doesn’t have to be a daily struggle. You can look forward to each day with each other rather than dreading them.
Today is a good day for starting the way toward healing. Today is a good day for changing the the meaning of the relationship scars as well.
When you hear your spouse’s voice, consider your reaction. If you cringe or feel a wince of pain, your marriage needs some help.
If your spouse’s voice sounds like screeching or irritating noise, your marriage needs help. At that point, differences have turned into irritations.
The “30 Days to a Better Marriage” is a program designed for helping turn your marriage around. With today being Valentine’s Day, there’s an openness to making your marriage better.
Best Regards,
Jeff
