Whether or not it was wanted or unwanted, whether it was planned or unplanned, whether it was a one night stand or an extended relationship, you and your spouse are now facing the challenges of dealing with an affair.
The affair means that your marriage relationship is at risk. The affair likely put this foundational relationship of your life in serious jeopardy.
When the foundations of your marriage life are shaky, it effects every other relationship you have. Just because you can’t see any damage doesn’t mean it’s not there. The damage is real and the effects, like aftershocks can continue occurring long after the affair is over.
If you’re like most other couples, what you know about affairs and dealing with them was learned from movies, television shows and dysfunctional families. If you’re one of those who has read one or more books on affairs, you are way ahead of many other couples, yet how can you be sure that what you read will work for your marriage?
If you’re needing pointers and direction during this confusing time, the Affair Recovery Workshop clears the way for you and your spouse in recovering from the affair. Whether you and your spouse wish to try fixing your marriage on your own, or want to see a marriage counselor, the Affair Recovery Workshop gives you what you need.
The Affair Recovery Workshop is designed based on over 30+ years of working with couples. Rather than rely on what you learned from poor role models and bad examples, you can benefit from what’s worked with many other couples.
What makes the Affair Recovery Workshop different are the techniques and interventions developed from brain science research. This means that instead of stumbling and fumbling your way through trial and error on opening up communication and dealing with resistances, you have ways of addressing the issues and opening up communication that bypass the brain’s defenses.
The two of you don’t have to get bogged down with arguing over what kind of affair it was or whether what happened was an affair. Rather than picking at each other’s wounds, you can instead take steps at working together.
This means that instead of high drama, unpleasant arguments, the two of you can instead take advantage of my unique “no-drama” approach.
You’ll benefit from asking questions that get answers, from knowing which questions are more important to answer first, along with ways of reducing or eliminating those fights that ‘don’t get you anywhere’.
Rather than your brain being like scrambled eggs when it comes to talking with each other, you can instead know ‘what’ topics to bring up that make a difference.
Whether or not the two of you decide on staying together or splitting, you will both need to be able to talk with each other. The “Affair Recovery Workshop” guides you through ways of opening up the fractured and blocked communication games that often occur with affairs.
This workshop is for you if:
- You’re wanting help in knowing what to talk about
- You’re willing to give your marriage a chance
- You want better communication in your marriage
- There’s a family pattern of affairs
- You need or want a cookbook that helps you know where to start putting things back together
The material in the workshop can be used by either one or both of you, although together gives you the best results. The workshop can also be used as stand-alone self-help for your marriage or as an adjuvant (help) to marriage counseling.
The affair does not have to mean the end of your marriage.
The Affair Recovery Workshop also includes:
- The formula for improving communication and techniques that bypass defensiveness
- Ways of restoring lost intimacy
- Ways of dealing with the affair issue with extended family members
- Ways of freeing up stuck and paralyzed communication
Being able to move past the affair is important. The two of you can put the affair behind you. Even though the foundations of your marriage have been rocked, a new foundation can be built, and the Affair Recovery Workshop will let you know what that foundation is along with how to build it.
Imagine being able to enjoy the company of your spouse again. You can once again have confidence in them and yourself rather than being plagued with fears and obsessive thoughts.
You and your spouse have potential. You recognized it years ago. You can once again feel hopeful and reclaim that lost potential.
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