Archive for the Rebuilding the relationship
The hurt associated with affairs lasts a long time. Although you and your spouse may think that the hurt is over when all is finally forgiven or a commitment is made. Although such actions may end part of the hurt, affairs have a way of reaching across the generations. The reach of affairs goes both […]
Although high drama showdowns make for entertainment at the movies, such episodes are not good for relationships. Even though we want a one time episode to “get it all out”, life does not work that way. If you are expecting to ‘fix’ everything with one meeting or one talk with your spouse, it is unlikely […]
Affairs crash into lives with the devastation of a major pile-up. With the power of an 18-wheeler, it runs over your personal identity and self-esteem, crushing you in the process.
You began asking yourself, “What have I done wrong?” “What have I done to deserve this?” “What should I do?”
You become a confluence […]
Cinderella went running and left her glass shoes at the palace when the clock struck twelve midnight. I’m sure you still remember her story, how the Prince pursued her and how they lived happily ever after.
Unfortunately for most couples, there isn’t a happily ever after. The prince and princess do not always have […]
When a husband or wife leaves the home, it is never a good sign. Leaving the home is often a signal that there are serious problems and that the relationship as you knew it is over. When a husband leaves the home, there is often more hope for the relationship than when the wife leaves […]
This is one of the more difficult questions that arise in the course of dealing with affairs. This question is one that challenges your commitment to your spouse, your values and yourself. Many people look for a skeleton key that unlocks all the locks and answers all the questions. There is no one size fits […]
Should You Get Divorce after an Affair?
You were hurt and you feel deeply betrayed. You ask yourself, “How can I trust my spouse again?” because of emotions and internal conflicts, you may become desperate in seeking for the right answers and the right solutions.
The most instinctive response to an affair is divorce. But […]
Communicate and Participate in Rebuilding Your Marriage
Communication is a two-way process. If all you do is talk and talk and talk without considering your partner, he or she might just leave you talking.Health communication allows for both you to talk and listen. The amount of time each talks requires parity. When one person […]
You and your partner have known about the affair. To save your marriage, you have to understand that there are several things both you and your partner have to do for your marriage to be promoted.
Make sure the affair is truly over. The affair has to stop! No more communication and interaction at […]
I often hear the question, “Why doesn’t she leave him?” or “Why does he put up with her?”. These are questions often asked regarding affairs. The questions arise when outsiders do not understand the bonding that has taken place. When couples have been together for a while, there is bonding. The bonding occurs on many […]
