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Having an affair is taking a risk. In many ways it is akin to gambling, where part of the thrill is the danger of the risk itself. Like gambling, it can become addictive as well. When a person experiences the rush of adrenalin associated with an affair, it is difficult to go back to routine […]
What to Do After an Affair
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Don’t be frantic when you find out your spouse had an affair. It’s time for you to draw upon your strength and stand up for yourself. You have to remain strong. This, however, should not be your reason for not seeking out the help of your closest […]
One of the scars of having survived the affair is that you become obsessed with the affair. Not long after, you feel that every single woman that your husband talks to is a potential mistress (If you are the husband, you assume each man is a potential paramour). Your view of the world has changed. […]
Some spouses actively seek their partner’s permission for an affair. Although some ask directly, others hold onto comments made in anger or frustration as verbal approval for their disloyalty. The catch is that once this cat is out of the bag, it is difficult to ever put it back. Once the boundaries of the marriage […]
As children, when we were ill, it was common that our mothers often gave us some awful tasting medicine. Although you hated the taste, it helped with the healing process. In a similar manner, there are things that have to be realized in dealing with affairs. On another site, where I have several pages dealing […]
Going through an affair and surviving it is a lot like having your house blown by tornado. It is very difficult to rebuild, it is very difficult to know where to stay and how to pick up the pieces again. In this regard, you cannot go through it just by yourself.
There are people who […]
Now that 2007 is gone, one can go back and look at what happened. Infidelity expert Ruth Houston who is out of New York, posted her top 10 infidelity stories of 2007. I found her list interesting, but my own list has some differences.
1. Gerald Ford’s posthumous biography addressed the Clinton adultery matter and Ford’s […]
When couples begin the work involved of restoring their relationship, there are often hurdles that must be overcome. Just being able to rationally discuss what happened is one of the early obstacles. Once that is covered, then tackling issues concerning forgiveness can be addresses. These accomplishments are important. It is at the next stage, that […]
Traumas are often associated with sexual addictions. These traumas could have occurred in early life or in their adult life. Traumas could be physical, emotional or spiritual in origin. Despite the various sources of trauma, the effects are similar.
In physical traumas, in some cases, where there is organic brain damage, there are some difficulties in […]
