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In dealing with affairs, one of the obstacles that has to be confronted and overcome is that of the walls. There are several walls that must be overcome in surviving affairs. The first wall is that of secrecy. The second is that of unforgiveness. Each wall carries with it challenges associated with overcoming it as […]

Once trust is gone or damaged, rebuilding it is challenging. Although a marriage can be damaged with as few as one bad choice or bad act, rebuilding trust is not so easily or simply accomplished. There is no silver bullet or one quick fix thing that you can do to repair the damage of disloyalty. […]

People often want to know what can be done to strengthen their marriages. This is a list of some things you can do.
1. Talk to your spouse in a supportive and encouraging manner.
2. Have fun with your spouse.
3.  Spend time with your spouse.
4. Talk to your spouse about something they enjoy.
5. Smile at your spouse.
6. […]

Since the lifeblood of an affair is fantasy, there are many challenges to overcome in reaching ‘the truth’ .  In seeking an answer for ‘the truth’,  I have spent years studying and working with couples going through the crisis of an affair. What I hope to do with this blog is to help the readers […]