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In a recent post, I dealt with the danger of stalking that often goes with affairs. With the improvements in technology, the danger of stalking is increased. It is now easier than ever to stalk someone or be stalked.

Anytime you are involved in an affair, there is a danger of being stalked. The stalking may start off with someone merely googling who you are. From there, they advance to checking various data bases and private investigator sites. With the lull in the economy, there are many private investigators who are ready, willing and able to help. Having lived in the Houston area, I am familiar with the episode of the dentist who hunted down her husband. The investigative service involved in the episode were being paid by several players in the whole episode. When a stalker believes they are the only ones using a private investigator, they are often mistaken.

There is also a wealth of information available on the internet. Addresses, phone numbers, business location and other information is readily available. With the increasing number of people getting online, there are increasing dangers that go with those people using the internet. No longer do national boundaries stop people from stalking. It is now feasible to live in one country and stalk someone across the world on the internet. With this in mind, if you find yourself in the midst of an affair, you will need to be on guard against stalkers. The stalkers not only seek out those participating in the affair. The resolute spouse may find themselves being smeared by a stalker. There is also the danger of an angry co-woker making false accusations of an affair, just to ruin your reputation. With the use of the internet, falsified letters, pictures and information can be easily posted to create the impression of impropiety.

Best Regards,

Jeffrey Murrah

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One of the dangers of the internet, and especially social network sites is that many people use them to stalk others. This feature brings an element of danger to any affair, whether it is virtual or otherwise. The ability to stalk means that the spurned lover may hunt down your partner or even the resolute spouse during and after the affair. This feature also poses a danger for the lover. The lover can also be stalked by an anger or obsessed spouse.

Getting involved in an affair is often akin to Russian Roulette in that the unsuspecting spouse may not have considered the psychological make up of the person they selected to have an affair with (or who had an affair with them). When you can get into another person’s pants, the likelihood is that there are some self-control issues at work. Those same poor self-control that made it easy to score, makes that person dangerous. The easy score may also have limited self-control when it comes to revenge or respecting boundaries.

Best Regards,

Jeff Murrah

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