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In assembling material for another book on dealing with affairs, I have come across some thought provoking observations. One is that there is often a greater emphasis on understanding whether or not an affair is taking place than on ways of coping with the affair. There are plenty of top 10 signs that your spouse is cheating, but there are few top 10 signs of How to cope with affairs. There are even fewer top 10 lists of How to know when the affair is over, or the top 10 signs that your marriage is healing after an affair.

In terms of what to make of it, I am not sure. I suspect that many people want to know about whether or not an affair is occurring, yet they do not always want to recover from the affair. People also do not want information on how to break up affairs either, which puzzles me. It seems to me that people should be interested in signs that the affair is over, which is something I would be interested in.

I will share more of the observations and discoveries along the way as I assemble the material for what promises to be a fascinating book dealing the the most common concerns about affairs.

Best Regards,

Jeffrey Murrah

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This is one of the more difficult questions that arise in the course of dealing with affairs. This question is one that challenges your commitment to your spouse, your values and yourself. Many people look for a skeleton key that unlocks all the locks and answers all the questions. There is no one size fits all answer to this kind of question, other than is you safety in danger. If you are in danger physically, emotionally or spiritually, you will need to go and go quickly. Although that should be a common sense response, with many people, the intensity of the bonding with their spouse makes it difficult to even know when they are in danger.

You will need to be honest about what constitutes a ‘real’ threat. There have been many counselors and lawyers who have exloited people in this area. You will need to be honest with yourself about the level of the threat. If you can not tell a real threat from a possible one, there are other questions you need to be considering.

Best Regards,

Jeff Murrah

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