With the holiday season around the corner, the possibility of affairs increases. The question soon arises as to whether or not you are at risk for an affair.
1. Do you or your spouse spend large quantities of time away from home?
2. Do you or your spouse take frequent business trips?
3. Do you or your spouse work in a business where there are large sums of cash?
4. Do you or your spouse drink too much?
5. Do you or your spouse spend large amounts of time engaged in viewing pornography?
6. Do you or your spouse have sudden changes in sexual tastes or behaviors?
7. Have you or your spouse suddenly changed your hairstyles or frequent the gym more often?
8. Do you or your spouse often maintain separate computer e-mail accounts?
9. Do you or your spouse engage in secretive behavior on the computer?
10. Do you or your spouse have different bedtimes?
11. Are there unexplained gifts or expenses?
12. Do you or your spouse have cell phone bills and charge card bills sent to an address other than the home?
These are just a few of some of the signs to be on the look out for. These will alert you to possible situations that are at high risk for affairs.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
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Many times the signs and symptoms of an affair are visible. An expression in counseling is that “a person can not not communicate”. There are always signals and non-verbal signs of behaviors. There may be oddities that you notice in their behavior. Many spouses do not mention these items or question them but rather instead write them off as “a bad day”, “coincidence” or some other excuse. By ignoring these matters, it turns a blind eye to the affair. Instead of ignoring the signs, learn to ask questions. When your spouse distances themselves from you, be willing to ask them about it, instead of excusing it. If it were your teen and the issue was drug abuse you would look for warning signs. If it was cancer, you would look for warning signs, yet with affairs, the warning signs are often ignored. Instead of ignoring the truth, explore the truth.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
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