There are some couples who actually plant seeds for their own destruction within the marriage. One way this occurs is through the use of fantasy and toys. Although many couples find that these may enhance their playtime, there is a hidden danger. The hidden danger is that such practices often lead to you or your spouse developing a taste for the toys and fantasies. This danger becomes apparent when a seducer or seductress dresses or wants to play the same game. Since the sensitivity to the game is already there, the seduction is half-done when it begins. The stiletto heels make you look nice, but you will want your husband attracted to you rather than your stiletto heels. If he is attached to the stilettos more than you, then the next person wearing stilettos will find it easy to attract him. Fetishes, by their very nature, focus on attaching emotions to the objects rather than the person wearing them. So, the same reaction will occur whenever someone else wears the fetish object or toy the next time.

One of the things that swingers find exciting is the dressing up for the event. The excitement of the toys and fantasy is one of the ways used to keep people hooked into such lifestyles.

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J Murrah

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The future forecast regarding infidelity is ominous. It seems that the internet is being tapped to make swinging and affairs easier to occur. In previous days, in order to ’swing’ a person swapped with an acquaintance, which were often neighbors or associates. There were some swinger’s clubs, but in order to gain entrance, a person would have to know someone who invited them. If you were a swinger, local neighbors knew it, and often discussed it. The attention associated with swinging often kept some people away, since they did not want the notoriety.

Now with the internet, there is the capability of discreet affairs and swinging. Adult friend finder has grown into a multi-million dollar business. It has recently been acquired by the adult magazine Penthouse and will now be better financed in attempting to undermine marriages and relationships. There are also entrepreneurs who are seeking to develop social networking sites designed for swingers and infidels. The latest site is Browsercast. I am passing this article and links along, not to encourage participation but to alert those of you who are faced with these challenges as to the latest dangers out there. It is not beyond an infidel to lie or distort information to confuse you. Using excuses like “Browsercst is just another Facebook” or “Browsercast is just another MySpace” will only serve to confuse the real intentions. (BTW, the social network sites are a place where infidels often make contacts. The research indicates it is easier to score on MySpace than Facebook. If your spouse maintains a profile, you may want to check it out, especially if the profile is of a pseudonym or alias).  With these new technologies backed with funding, there will be bigger challenges to marriages who believe in the one man-one woman model.

Best Regards,

Jeffrey Murrah

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