Category: Affair Recovery Radio
[Affair Recovery Radio] Do they have to admit to the affair?
One of the challenging questions in affair recovery is whether the cheater has to ‘admit to the affair’. it is best if they do. Better for them, you, and
[Affair Recovery Radio] Affair Relapse Basics
When the cheater returns to cheating after a period of being monogamous only to you, it is know as a relapse. Some cheaters never make it that far. For
[Affair Recovery Radio] Dealing with Cheater Games
Cheaters play games. Whether they are in the cheater’s head or with you, games are going on. The games share two things – shifting blame and shutting down emotions.
[Affair Recovery Radio] The Cheater’s Delusions
Like the Emperor in ‘The Emperor’s New Clothes’, cheaters live in a world of delusions and lies. Today you are going to hear about part of the cheaters delusion
[Affair Recovery Radio] Affair Relapse: When is it a high risk situation?
After an affair, there is a risk of relapse. You cannot control your spouse and their choices. When a cheater is in a high-risk situation, the likelihood of relapse
[Affair Recovery Radio] Keeping your Marriage Relationship
Although you’ve talked about keeping a man, or woman, or your marriage, do you know what ‘keeping’ means and how to do it? Keeping a spouse or relationship takes
[Affair Recovery Radio] What About Playing the Victim Card?
You may have been told that you are ‘playing the victim card.’ being told that raises two possibilities, that you have played the victim card, or that the accuser
[Affair Recovery Radio] How to Ask Questions that Get Results
You may have asked your spouse questions about the affair. You may have overwhelmed them with your questions. Asking questions is thought to be a good thing, yet doing
Dealing with Serial Cheaters
“Dealing with serial cheaters is exasperating. With serial cheaters you experience a double-whammy. You are faced with ““here we go again“” blast, while punishing yourself for ‘being such a
[Affair Recovery Radio] What are you looking for?
“In the aftermath of an affair you’re overloaded with questions. You question God, yourself, and your spouse. You may even be questioning your own sanity. Everything you thought you