Why Divorce Might Not Be Your Quick Fix and What You Can Do Instead
One of the things I hate is red tape and bureaucracy. Over the weekend, I found myself giving the same information to three different people when placing an online
Breaking Free from the Shackles of Betrayal
Running into your ex is seldom pleasant, especially in the aftermath of an affair. Just the sight of them reminds you of what they did. The more unsavory the
Do You Seek Relief or Real Recovery?
One of the most profound questions when it comes to affair recovery is “Do you want to be healed?” This simple question is one you’ll eventually face in recovering
How Avoiding Conflict in Your Marriage Can Actually Tear It Apart
There are many paradoxes you’ll encounter in recovering from an affair. When you experience them, they often leave you wondering “What the hell just happened?” and keep your mind
When Affair Secrets Spill Over into Family Ties
No matter how clever a person is, how much money they have, or how attractive they are, eventually, reality catches up with them. One area where reality catches up
How Avoiding Conflict in Your Marriage Can Actually Tear It Apart
There are many paradoxes you’ll encounter in recovering from an affair. When you experience them, they often leave you wondering “What the hell just happened?” and keep your mind
Why the Real Problem isn’t What you Think
Over the years I’ve come to realize that each vocational field has its’ own sayings. These are the phrases used by those in that field who understand the terms
The Hidden Toll of Infidelity on Children’s Hearts and Minds
Although I’ve addressed many topics regarding affairs, there are some items readers continue searching for month after month. Rather than touching on them every month, I make it a
From Bedroom Blues to Healing Hues: Navigating the Stormy Seas of Sexual Addiction and Marital Recovery
The headline of her post was “Help. Can we reconcile?” Even though it was a longer post, she said it was the short version of her story. It would
Are Cheaters Hypocrites?
An article in PsyPost caught my attention with the title “Study finds that cheaters are hypocrites when it comes to judgments about infidelity”. The title is definitely edgy. The
