Category: Resources
Leaving out the affair material
Have you ever wondered what goes on in a therapists’ head? There have been times I’ve been tempted to write a book on the making of a therapist. I
The Next Step in Liking them again
Yesterday, I dealt with starting to like your spouse again. It focused on the first step of removing barriers that are creating distance between the two of you. An
Special Announcement: Resources during Coronavirus Lockdown
If you are finding yourself facing relationship challenges during the lockdown, there are resources. One of them is the option of telephone counseling during this time. When you can’t
Have you considered a support group as part of your Affair recovery?
Are there times you wish you had a support group while recovering from an affair? Are you wanting a place to go where you can share your story while
Motivating your spouse: Should I use control or love?
Control is a fascinating topic, especially when it comes to marriage relationships. I say fascinating in that so many people try substituting control for love then wonder why they
Are you missing out on something?
Are there times you wonder if you’re missing out? You wonder if there are pieces of information that you’re missing out on in working through the affair? Chances are
Ten Years After and a Radical Turn: My 3000th Post
Over the years, I’ve learned the importance of gratitude whether or not it comes easy. During good times gratitude comes easy. It’s when you’re going through trials and challenges
The Frustration of Unanswerable Questions
If you want to frustrate your spouse and wreck communication, one sure way is by asking them ‘unanswerable questions’. Although you may assume that every question has an answer,
How many kinds of affairs are there?
Have you ever considered the question of how many kinds of affairs there are? Since other counselors emphasize knowing what kind of an affair you are dealing with, I
Looking for love (advice) in all the wrong places
The city of Pasadena, Texas had its moment in the spotlight with the movie Urban Cowboy and the Johnny Lee song, “Looking for love in all the wrong places”.