Okay, I’ll admit that I have shopped in a Wal-Mart. It’s my suspicion that many of you have shopped at Wal-Mart at some time in your life as well. It’s often astounding what you see and encounter on your shopping adventure.
I thought I’d seen and heard most of the wild stories about Wal-Mart encounters. One that jumped out at me was the recent story that happened at a Detroit store.
In that encounter one woman pulled a gun on another while buying school supplies. The altercation was over the last notebook on the shelf.
When mothers resort to pulling weapons over the last notebook, there’s no telling how she’ll react to someone stealing her husband. There are times when all civility breaks down and raw, passions flare up.
Threatening someone with a gun over a notebook is pretty desperate. It illustrated to me that self-control is a lost virtue and that some people have poor coping skills.
The Detroit incident has a couple of lessons. One is that if a mother is willing to pull a gun over school supplies, there’s no telling how she’ll react in an affair situation.
The weak self-control shown by brandishing a gun to a fellow shopper, is a flashing red warning light to me. Such a person is a slave to her passions.
If she wants an affair, you better not tell her no. If you cheat with her spouse, you better not get caught.
I’m sure she’s not the only spouse with poor coping skills. This is one of the things that scares me about cheating. Cheating is no longer an adult recreational activity. It’s become a matter of life and death.
The tension levels of some of you are so high that it doesn’t take much for you to ‘lose it’ or your spouse to lose it. Affairs are a high risk behavior these days.
The risk remains high even after the affair is over. Those resentments remain triggers that are set off with the wrong words or slight inconsideration.
If you are tense or easily set off, there is likely some affair trauma issues that are unresolved. The video “Overcoming Affair Trauma” guides you in regaining your self control. You didn’t lose self-control overnight. You can regain your composure and stability. This video guides you in regaining your composure.
Best Regards,
Jeff
One Response
To me cheaters are so self absorbed, entitled to happy, selfish etc…. that they never concern themselves with what could happen. They get so full of themselves being special that they are immune to diseases and other things. Don’t need contraceptives I’m special! On the backside they have destroyed so much and I doubt there are many chumps who have not had the thought of suicide or shooting someone. It is a dangerous game they play….. they are damaged people in so many ways!