Going through an affair and surviving it is a lot like having your house blown by tornado. It is very difficult to rebuild, it is very difficult to know where to stay and how to pick up the pieces again. In this regard, you cannot go through it just by yourself.
There are people who have gone through an affair and try to rebuild their lives by getting a divorce; getting depressed or even becoming dependent on substance and other addictive activities. This is not the way to rebuild your life!
Rebuilding your life is done by rebuilding your trust with your spouse. You need to take the bricks of time and forgiveness and cement it with commitment and a willingness to work things out. When you affirm your commitment and your love with each other, nothing would be impossible. In cases where you feel depressed and lost, you can find comfort in love and hope.
Love is just like the building of a home. It might be blown away by different trials and difficulties in life but if you are willing to work it out and remember your love, you can rebuild what has been lost.
