There is a time, in the aftermath of an affair, when either through urges, frustration, temptation or just giving up that you consider having an affair yourself. Although it is tempting, you will need to resist the urge. This is one of those items that you will need to fast forward the tape and look at where it will get you in the LONG run rather than looking at the temporary relief you fantasize that it will bring. Such affairs are often more about revenge and emotional release than about relationship and love. This temptation will come, but it will pass if you refuse to give into the urge.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
