Years ago Ford used the slogan “Quality is Job#1”. The use of that phrase helped make the campaign a success. It resonated with people. This brought to mind that when dealing with affairs, you need to consider what is your job #1? It could be that your priorities are confusing matters. You may say you want the cheater back, then make life hell on them with incessant reminders about what they did. The cheater looks at what you say you want and what you are doing. They quickly see that the two do not agree. What you say you want does not agree with what you are doing. Many of you need to honestly look at what you are doing and see if it agrees with what you say you want. The cheater may be seeing that your actual job #1 is not what you thought it was. Your actions will always convey what the highest priority is.
So if what you are doing is not agreeing with what you say you have as “job #1” there are some changes that need to occur.
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
For more on this check out my e-book, where I address why getting your spouse back is NOT the first thing you need to be doing.
