If you are one of those wondering ‘Do cheating husbands come back?’ I do not have a clear answer for you. I can tell you that statistically the majority of cheating husbands do not end up marrying their lover. I can tell you that some cheating husbands do come back, but I can not guarantee that yours will. Although I can not guarantee that your husband will come back, I can tell you that in order to get them back, you will need to remove any obstacles in the way of them coming back.
Some of the things that you can do include:
1) Listen! to them. Listening does not mean that you agree with them, it does mean that you hear them out. When listening, try not to interrupt them.
2) Quit calling them names or tearing them down. Although they might be tough on the outside, there are often many hurts on the inside. Hurtful words or putting them down sends a strong message that they are not welcome back in your life.
3) Quit telling all your friends and family about your problem with the cheater. By telling them all your difficulties, it may create a situation where they take up offenses on your behalf against your husband
4) Be accessible. It is hard to talk to someone who is always too busy or not accessible.
5) Let them know that you are making room for them. You do not have to create a man-cave for them, but you do need to make it welcome. Do not force them to have pink frilly things on their toilets and have no place to put up their pictures or things that are important to them.
These items will not get your husband back, but they will make it easier for him to come back
Best Regards,
Jeffrey Murrah
