Backstabbing Lawyer Tactics

Are you ready to deal with backstabbing lawyer tactics?  Do you know ways of defending yourself and your marriage against legal tricks?

Have you considered how far is too far for a lawyer to go? If you haven’t, then you need to reconsider the affair and divorce proceedings.

The worst backstabbing lawyer tactic I experienced was painful. I trusted what the lawyer was telling me.

From behind his big desk, surrounded by degrees, and PR photos, his reassuring words made it sound like I was making the best choice of protecting myself from the opposing attorney.

I wanted a relationship ended without leaving scars while still holding onto my stuff.  I should’ve known, relationships never end that clean cut.

Things had already spun out of control, with legal maneuvers using threats to force a judge and another lawyer out of the situation. I made the mistake of thinking he had my best interest in mind.

I was wrong! His main interest was maintaining his legal practice and buddy-buddy relationships within the legal community.

After trusting in his advice and putting myself in a vulnerable position, he suddenly pulled out, leaving me a defenseless target.

The opposing attorney jumped at his chance at my vulnerabilitiy. Soon I was a million dollar pin cushion. The opposition was suing us for a million dollars.

To him, I was expendable. Later my lawyer told me that “You’re young, you can bounce back!” He took the easy out rather than deliver on his promises. He wasn’t being sued for a million dollars. He was not about to loose his home. His butt was not ‘on the line’.

I forgot that his first promise and loyalty was the one to the legal community and court system. I made the mistake of thinking that he was ‘working for me’. When your needs come in conflict with the court system, you will lose.

Backstabbing lawyers count on you trusting them and the legal system. They know that when you trust them, they can talk you into things. They want you to trust them without them having to prove themselves.

You get to test drive cars, but you can’t do that so easily with lawyers. Sure, you can see what they’ve done for others, but that is not what they can do for you.

Anytime I think about lawyers in family matters, my scars remind me of what happens. One touch is all it takes to recall what happens and wince.

If you’re thinking about an affair, moving ahead with your affair or bringing in the lawyers, consider my questions. If you’ve not considered the questions, you’re a sheep waiting for shearing.

Once your marriage is in the legal system, it won’t come out the same. Your relationships will have ugly scars that still hurt years later.  Those fantasies of using the courts to end your relationship quickly and easily come with a price.

The courts will take their pound of flesh from you, your spouse or your marriage. If things are ever amicable, it will be due to others not carrying grudges. Things being amicable will never be due to things being fair.

There is no ‘fairness’ when it comes to family relationships in the legal system. The system is designed for tearing apart businesses and distribute assets. It was never designed for marriage relationships.

Family courts originated in the church, where relationships were considered ahead of assets. Over time, the legal system took over the family matters, yet they didn’t change their tools. The same tools used in ripping up businesses and kingdoms was now used in dealing with family matters.

They know that there is lots of money in the break-up of a family. They count on it. In breaking open families, they make more money. They are the original ‘homewreckers’. They do more to wreck homes and damage families than hussies or hustlers do. The lover gets the bad reputation for wrecking homes, yet it’s the lawyers that sign the paperwork making things official.

You may think you know ways of dealing with your spouse and out thinking them. When the courts are brought in, you are faced with new levels of tactics. Lawyers excel in knowledge of backstabbing tactics. They spend years studying cases where people find new ways of backstabbing.

They know what to say and how to say it so that people react. They are not about tact, unless it’s in their best interest. In the courtroom, they can twist and distort the truth to the point you don’t recognize it.

What makes matters worse, they rip you up emotionally while maintaining a cool professional demeanor. This is not a marital squabble using surrogates to fight for you.

Lawyers intentionally make their letters and proceedings inflammatory. They know what buttons to push that you’ll react to. They count on you reacting. The longer you stay reactive, the longer the case goes on, and the more money they’ll make.

When you hire a lawyer, you are turning pit bulls and sharks loose on the person you promised to love, honor, cherish and protect. You are turning someone trained in deceiving, hurting, maiming and dismembering loose on your loved one. When they hire a lawyer, the same thing happens in reverse.

Rather than hire the lawyer and “release the Kraken“, consider the Affair Recovery Workshop as an option before hell is unleashed. Your marriage is worth another chance.

Best Regards,

Jeff