How far will the other woman go for your man? You may be surprised how far some women go with their affairs and how desperate things can get. Let me share a story with you.
Another title for this account could be “The difference between a whore and a dirty whore”.
Alicia presents herself as a good Christian woman. Her social media posts are filled with Bible verses, pleasant pictures and encouraging sayings. She knows the importance of good appearances. She knows that in order to steal successful and wealthy men from their wives she needs to come across as a ‘nice girl’. This includes always looking nice, smelling nice and dressed attractively, but not slutty.
This also makes her look ‘good’ when spurned wives get angry and you start cussing like a sailor. The ‘good girl’ image is a game she plays. when you are loosing your cool, she’s keeping hers. It’s a show for your spouse showing how ‘nice’ she is and how angry you are. Much like the devil being an angel of light, Alicia comes across as an image of sweetness, which hides another side of her.
There are times that the sweetest of packages have the most dangerous ingredients. In Alicia’s case, she spread Gonorrhea and Chlamydia along with her encouraging sayings.
When Alicia finds a man she likes, she hunts him down. Seduction for her is a way of life. The Bible verses provided a convenient cover up for the side of her that hunts men down. If she was seen as the predator she was, it would scare men off.
You often see seducers exhibit behavior in extremes. Those extremes go from extremely wholesome to extremely evil. You see them at one extreme or the other. Neither extreme is the ‘real’ Alicia. Bouncing between the extremes is one of the things seducers like Alicia do.
Seduction also comes in many forms. When she can’t get what she wants directly with sexual advances, she offers her targets trips. The trips are often to gambling centers where she can seduce them one moral after another.
It’s hard for some men to turn down taking a trip with an attractive woman who showers you with attention and strokes your ego. Your husband may turn down the sexual advances, yet with a woman like Alicia, she knows that when he continues hanging around he really wants to be seduced at some level.
Being surrounded by fast money and fast times often makes for an easy seduction. It was an added bonus if the husband had to lie about the trip. She knew that one lie leads to another and makes them more vulnerable.
As part of her seduction, she sent daily text messages to her targets. She knew that when they start fantasizing about her and their trip with her, it seduced them mentally. Once her targets are mentally seduced, the physical follow through was easy. She gets them fantasizing and wanting her. Once their fantasies are aroused, the rest is easy.
Alicia made it a point to remove any reminders of home from her targets. She got their attention and removed any distractions from wives or children. With all the attention on her, the rest of the seduction was easy.
Once the physical seduction happened, her target was vulnerable to more seduction. The seduced is then an easy mark for real estate deals, business deals or whatever else. While in a state of arousal in an adult gambling playground, the sky’s the limit since there are no reminders that bring him back to you and the family.
When your spouse does come back after time with Alicia, they are broke, infected and shamed. Alicia brings a whole new definition to the difference between a whore and a dirty whore. When you are also infected, you’ll then know the difference as well.
Although infections and an empty bank account should wake some husbands up, it many cases, it doesn’t. Alicia knows that. She knows that as long as she can continue sending text messages and naked photos of herself, she can keep her ‘big fish’ hooked. Just a reminder is often all it takes to trigger the cheater’s arousal.
Alicia used social media in her efforts at either befriending or alienating wives. The dual nature of good girl/seducer is used in keeping her game going. She has tasted the thrill of seducing married men and loves it.
She knows each picture or suggestive text creates problems between you and your spouse, while giving her more opportunities. You may view them as ‘having no shame’. Alicia views each of them as potential opportunities of either hooking or putting more pressure on the cheater. A man under pressure is easier to manipulate.
For her, a trapped married man can give her more enjoyment than single men who would not put up with her head games. She can also squeeze a lot more out of a trapped married man, than a single one. If you ever wondered how far will a woman go, just remember the story of Alicia.
If your marriage has experienced someone like Alicia you need help. It may be help ending the relationship, help waking the cheater up or help rebuilding your marriage.
The video on Affair Relapse helps you reduce the risks of the Alicia’s in your life. One Alicia can ruin years of marriage.
Best Regards,
Jeff
4 Responses
Interesting. What if you are married to that woman? A person who chased other men used the “my husband is bad and never what I wanted” mantra. While doing much of what is in the article. Posting up on social media the religious materials the Im good can you all see? Sitting through church (not your run of the mill feel good type) even a sermon on adultery and never batting an eye. Granted she never chased a married man, but one was engaged and that was not a problem for her.
David,
I’m glad that you found it interesting. Your question, ” What if you are married to that woman?” is a real gut wrencher. In writing the post, I hadn’t considered that angle. The situation you describe of a woman chasing single men under the pretense that her ‘husband is bad’ raises some thought provoking points. With the selective choosing of men, she has some conscience left, seared, but some of it’s intact. Such a woman would have twisted her sense of theology to accommodate her licentious actions. In her mind, she can justify such things based on having a bad husband. (This type of woman is closely akin to the ‘God wouldn’t want me to be unhappy’ type).
Her sitting through the sermon is another sign of either a seared or highly compartmentalized conscience. She redefines all the terms in her head so that she can take it in without conviction. She may have even ‘redefined’ adultery in her mind. Such people often play word games as a way of life. They are frustrating to deal with since they have a strong case of double-mindedness and don’t see any badness in what they are doing (see Proverbs 30:20 for an illustration and context: Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.)
Living with such a woman is not a situation for the feint of heart. It would take a strong love and strong commitment to the marriage to handle and turn around such a situation.
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