Having dinner with a brazen hussy is quite an experience. Just meeting a brazen hussy is not for the feint of heart. They are bold in talking about their sexual exploits and adulterous ways and see nothing wrong in what they have done.
I found myself in a situation with such a woman, named Amy. During the course of dinner, Amy began talking openly about how she was sleeping with married men. I was shocked at how Amy could talk so freely and boldly about her exploits in such a public arena.
Here we were, in a crowded restaurant with waitstaff circling around the table and she is talking boldly and unashamedly about her exploits. I could understand talking about them in hushed conversations or behind the secure privacy of the doors of the therapist office, but openly in such a public venue was…surprising. Typically when people tell me such things, they are accompanied by shame or repentance.
Amy’s talking about them in such a bragging manner caught me by surprise.
During the dinner, the verse from Proverbs 30:20 (Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.) continued running through my mind.
It struck me that Amy really doesn’t think that she is doing anything wrong. As she unashamedly discussed the husbands she bedded, her non-verbals conveyed openness to the point of bragging. It was as if she relished what she had done.
After openly talking about her exploits, she then turned to me and asked whether or not I approved of her ‘polyamory’.
Polyamory makes the old sleeping around and being a brazen hussy sound ‘acceptable’. By using the term polyamory, it turns morality questions into a lifestyle issue.
These days, new terms are often coined which take the sting out of the old terms. People understand the old terms because they made it possible to understand the world and relationships.
I understand the old saying by the Chinese scholar, Confucius. He stated, “The beginning of wisdom is to call things by their proper name”. Calling Amy a brazen hussy made the situation clearer than whether or not I approved of her “polyamorous lifestyle”.
The new terms often confuse and distort what is really going on. By asking whether I approved of her polyamory turns it into a question of whether or not I was ‘accepting’ instead of the moral aspects of her sleeping with married men.
In modern society, it is often seen as a greater evil for one to be unaccepting rather than being immoral. Modern society has twisted morals and common sense backwards.
This is one of the ploys of a brazen hussy. They often turn and twist the situation around on you. Rather than focusing on the right and wrong of what they are doing and the consequences it has for your family, they focus the attention on whether or not you approve of what they are doing.
The boldness is used as a way of forcing you to accept what they’ve done. The boldness is a way of forcing themselves on you since they don’t have moral authority. By being bold, they have a form of rightness that overwhelms some people.
They are so bold, it often takes people by surprise. This is why they are a threat to your marriage. When the brazen hussy boldly propositions your spouse for sexual favors, some husbands have a hard time saying “no”, especially when they’re also attractive. There is something about a bold, attractive woman wanting sex with you that makes a man react with “wow!” rather than “whoa!”
It’s no wonder that the saying “No brazen hussies for my hijo” (baby) is a popular and useful phrase. This phrase is often used as a warning of mothers to protect their sons and also for wives as a protection of their husbands. Those who have dealt with such bold and brazen types know the danger they pose.
If your marriage has been damaged by a brazen hussy, you’ll want to repair the damage done with the “Affair Recovery Workshop“.
Best Regards,
Jeff
2 Responses
Interesting you being this up
My husband could not allow a woman to be more bold and daring than he as a man
Some men have felt that they owned the image such as James Bond or other womanizing “heros” who have. A used men who may not know the point of strength of being MORAL and how God has set the standard of STENGTH
Being more than a “conqueror ” as defined by how many women (or men ) you can get…and possibly setting “snagging” an unavailable person ( aka MARRIED) as some kind of trophy !
Getting someone to step over the line has been set before people as some kind of “bravery”
So when a woman approached my husband with her plan ….because she knew he was married…with a family of three young children …..it had the added effect of a challenge …..or “are you chicken”
The idea of a life guided by Biblical morality began to break down as the church began to become feminized around the time of the Industrial Revotion
Add to that the devopmwmt of an education system formed to indoctrinate along humanist lines
And a media capable to enter every home and feed the various fantasies and encourage dissatisfaction with a “regular life”
And you get people believing fidelity in marriage is weak and “boring ” and people who are really exceptional will make their ow rules
So yes….the devil knows every person’s vulnerability better than they do
Frankly I am not TEMPTED by a platter of worms temptations arrive “on time” when you are unprepared and weak in an easy area for sins successful working
My husband was raised and trained in competition and was successful
Any woman who might suggest he was too afraid to have a “fling” could pull him in as he refused to learn any of the things God reveals about the way marriage is GOOD. And actually satisfaction is a result of ones own determination and commitment ..as it results from being willing to learn HOW
Zaza,
Thank you for sharing your response. There are definitely some embolden women out there these days. I liked your description of playing ‘chicken’. It’s very fitting for such situations. There is a brinkmanship aspect to such interactions. It’s as if the woman bullies some men into affairs.
The brazen hussy changes the expected dynamics and puts her in a controlling role. It is a type of role reversal. Perhaps it’s a form of ‘leaving the natural use of the body’? Time will tell.
It’s very true that many men have been emasculated. There are various theories behind this along with various forces at work to do so. The more relationships leave the form of their original design, the more weirdness we are going to see along with the fall out from that weirdness.
Jeff