This spring I’m actually able to enjoy the change of seasons with a settled sense of peace. For the first time in many years, I no longer have to live with that tingle of unsettledness that comes from having a stalker.
Stalkers steal your peace of mind. Even when they are not around, there’s always the possibility that they may show up in some form.
Stalkers trigger your own mind to create a monster that chases you around. No matter where you go, the stalker follows you like a shadow.
There’s always an unsettled feeling no matter where you go. What makes it worse is that the legal system was useless in dealing with the situation. At times, they didn’t believe me, at times they humored me, and other times, they ignored me.
Even when it was time for voting, I tried explaining my concerns about the voter roll having my address and how the computer information could be used by my stalker.
The lady at the polling place gave me a “You’ve got to be kidding me” look. She didn’t understand that my stalker’s best friend was a research librarian that knew ways finding things out.
Being stalked is not something I’d wish on my enemies. When you’re being stalked, you look at the world differently. Rather than enjoying where you’re at, you view it in terms of how vulnerable you are.
Stalking is a favorite tactic of ‘trappers‘. Although I’ve mentioned trappers before, I didn’t go into detail about them and their nasty tool box. Trappers do exist. Although many cheaters may tell you “I was trapped!” , there are times they are telling you the truth.
The stalking is part of the trapper’s tendency of not letting go of people. Once they have a target, they firmly believe that person belongs to them.
When the lover is an old flame or ex that refuses letting go of the cheater, you may actually be dealing with a trapper. They view people as objects they try controlling and chasing. You become the latest installment of their real life entertainment.
These days, stalkers have an array of technological gadgets. Each new gadget expands their ability of watching and tracking you. From GPS trackers to drones, there are few places the stalkers are unable to find you.
Trappers don’t respect boundaries, so any discussion of boundaries with them is a waste of time. They want your spouse and will set traps and cast all kinds of nets in catching them.
They also put their victims in a position into some kind of commitment to them. That commitment may come in the form of pregnancy, illnesses or threats of suicide. Their goal is commitment and they don’t care how they have to go about getting it.
Escaping trappers is possible, yet requires a concerted effort by you and your spouse. Since they don’t leave you alone, there is a sense of long-term trauma with these kinds of affairs. When the lover won’t let go, the hurt just keeps on hurting. The cheater may also feel powerless and helpless in escaping from them.
The Affair Trauma video is what you need in moving past the high drama and stress that comes with trappers and their stalking. It helps you enjoy life once again without those unsettling fears in the back of your mind.
Life becomes much more enjoyable when you are free from the nagging stress of stalkers and the anxiety of always looking over your shoulder and second guessing every scenario. Spring is meant to be enjoyed.
Best Regards,
Jeff
