When couples begin the work involved of restoring their relationship, there are often hurdles that must be overcome. Just being able to rationally discuss what happened is one of the early obstacles. Once that is covered, then tackling issues concerning forgiveness can be addresses. These accomplishments are important. It is at the next stage, that the infidels often show the strongest resistance to change. That stage is the work of rebuilding trust. When the trust issues are dealt with and effort is made to restore them, that means that there is no ‘wiggle room’ for the infidel and they know that. Do not be surprised when they show resistance to rebuilding the trust. They may even sabotage the efforts at doing so.
Best Regards,
Jeff Murrah
