Today I found myself wanting to wad up and throw away some of my emails like I used to do to old school papers. There’s something about destroying the very existence of something I don’t like that is enjoyable.
In previous generations, with some hiding of evidence and creative lying, cheaters could easily hide an affair. These days, those strategies don’t work like they used to.
I was reminded of this with one of the bothersome emails I wanted to remove. It was from my insurance company. They want me to download their phone app.
Although they make it sound beneficial, the reality is that it also includes tracking capabilities. There’s something bothersome about an insurance company knowing all my whereabouts.
I know that I’m already being tracked by Google. Each month I receive a report about all the places I’ve been during the month. Any place I take my cell phone, it puts down a trail of breadcrumbs to follow. It’s like a shadow that follows me on every trip I take and place I eat. On top of that I receive emails from my car that lets me know when the gas or tire pressure is low. It leaves me feeling like it is narc-ing on me.
Then, there’s also the GPS in some vehicles that keep track of where you’ve been along with time stamps. It makes you wonder why any spouse would hire a private eye, when technology does the work for them.
This means that betrayed spouses no longer have to purchase GPS trackers. All they need these days is the ability to access your Gmail account and they can know where the cheater actually went.
This advance in technology also means that lying about where you’ve been or who you’ve been with no longer works. A creative spouse with the Google information can generate all kinds of information you thought was destroyed or hidden.
It also means that if you’re a cheater who can’t remember everything, there are ways of finding out. There are cases where cheaters zone out to such a degree with their cheating, they have little to no recollection of what they’ve done or where they’ve gone.
Whether you hide information or can’t recall it, your betrayed spouse knows. Either way, whether you are caught up in your own denial or forgetfulness, now is the time for doing something about the affair.
In the video “Help for the Cheater: Starting the Road to Recovery”, you’ll find what you need to do in starting the journey of getting your life back together.
Just click and download the video and within a few minutes, you can be on your way to turning things around.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
