After years of immersing myself in journalism courses, mingling with marketing gurus, and acquiring degrees in psychology, I can proudly say that I am immune to much of the sensationalist propaganda. I have come to appreciate the significance of critically evaluating the source behind emotionally charged headlines.
Take, for example, the recent headline that boldly claims, “The White supremacist origins of modern marriage advice.” Such a provocative statement may lead us to make sweeping generalizations about all forms of marriage guidance.
Initially, I brushed off the article when I first encountered it. However, as it gained traction and captivated readers across the nation, I decided to give it a read. What I discovered compelled me to share a few important insights.
The sensational headline certainly grabs attention, but it can unduly influence our perception of marriage advice, counseling, and the like. It may lead us to form unjustified negative assumptions about the quality and reliability of modern marital support and its sources.
However, such a narrow perspective is misleading. Instead, I find it more valuable to evaluate these offers of guidance based on key questions like “Does it actually work?” or “Will it truly help people?” or “What is the source?” By asking such questions, I arrive at more informed conclusions.
When it comes to the origins of marital advice, it is crucial to assess them through a 21st-century lens rather than solely relying on popular opinion or whatever social justice nonsense is being promoted at that time. Neglecting this approach can result in costly mistakes based solely on outdated ideas.
Upon closer examination, it becomes evident that the author behind the provocative headline has ulterior motives. Not only is she selective in her sources, focusing on fringe areas and authors with clear agendas, but she also appears to have a strong aversion to the institution of marriage.
It is important to note that the author’s selection primarily consists of flawed advice from the early 20th century, which can be considered the “dark net” of that era. During this time, when birth control was not readily available, many self-proclaimed gurus shared flawed ideas on marriage in an era of isolation and taboo around discussing sex and marital issues. Survival outweighed compatibility in those circumstances.
If you have grown up in a family that avoided open discussions about topics like sex, marriage, and affairs, you may be more susceptible to sensational articles and authors. It is crucial to consider both the source and the desired outcome when diving into this realm.
Does the expert you rely on genuinely believe in the power of marriage? Are they invested in seeing your marriage not only survive but thrive?
Consider what you truly desire for your own marriage. If you yearn to salvage and improve it, I encourage you to watch the video “Let’s Talk: Hurting People and Healing Questions.” Even if your family shied away from discussing sensitive subjects like affairs, this video offers a chance to bring about positive change.
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Keeping It Real,
Jeff
