Category: affair relapse
How Overthinking from Infidelity Anxiety Paralyzes Both the Betrayed and the Betrayer
In talking with people about their concerns, I become aware of trends impacting the public. One of the trends that I’ve been encountering lately is overthinking. Those experiencing overthinking
Have You Got Cheating on Your Mind?
Back in 1968 a singer named Jim Glasser wrote and recorded some of his songs. Although his record didn’t receive wide distribution, it made a big impact. The song
Doubting Yourself Again
In talking to spouses about infidelity, one of the topics that routinely comes up is how the affair leaves you doubting yourself. It takes you from a confident, decisive
When Good People Have Affairs
Several years ago, I conducted a survey known as the Affair Recovery Survey. After compiling the results and analyzing them, I learned new insights into affairs. It was humbling
Mick Jagger’s lesson on Affair relapse
The singer Mick Jagger once said, “I haven’t had the time to plan returning to the scene because I haven’t left it.” His words came to mind when a
Preventing the Next Affair and Stress
Are there times you wish you’d seen the affair coming? You may have even beat yourself up over how you missed something you should’ve seen. The truth is, unless
Temptation as a Torment
In a recent email, a reader mentioned struggling with temptations as they pulled out of affairs. Although they aren’t having an affair, they continue having thoughts about having one.
What comes after the Affair ends?
One of the tasks done around here each spring is weeding and mulching the front beds. I’ve learned the importance of hiring a good professional yard man for the
Going back to their ex
With the cold weather now reaching where I live, my initial inclination is to stay buried under the covers and not get out of bed. Whether or not I
The dangers of doing Affair Recovery alone.
There are things you can do to help your marriage stay strong. Doing affair recovery by yourself is risky. Although the world tells you that you can do it
