Category: affair relapse
The early warning sign of Affairs most people miss
Although the top concern expressed by couples about affairs is ‘trust’, my own findings indicate it should be something else. There is an early warning signal indicating trouble that
A Fairy Story about Limerence
Once upon a time, there was a young psychologist named Dorothy. Dorothy enjoyed helping people and learning. She was a hard worker, curious, and had an insatiable thirst for
What about limerence and Affairs?
Besides the weather changing, another thing that changes is fashion. Like the weather, fashions are always changing in terms of trends and popular colors. Some terms are accepted and
Signs your wife is putting the Affair behind her
Modern society wants information that is short, concise and easy to consume. This appetite for fast food and fast answers creates its own set of problems. One of the
Undoing the Affair Mindset
Throughout the year I watch the trends concerning affairs. Issues like staying together after infidelity, affair recovery, handling the trauma, and knowing the timeline of recovery dominate the minds
Making sure the cheater slips again
After yesterday’s post on Affair Relapse, it struck me that it would help addressing what not to do in preventing affair relapse. Knowing the common mistakes helps you avoid
How to Prevent Affair Relapse
A reader wanted to know “How to prevent Affair Relapse.” Although I’m glad they came to the right place, their request presents a challenge for me. Being aware of
Trouble shooting the Affair AGAIN!
One of the problems I hate dealing with are car repairs. Although some of those who are mechanically inclined have no issue with such problems, I do. Typically, when
Why Closure for the lover matters to YOU
The next aspect of closure in this series of emails concerns what closure means for the lover. Although you may not even want to consider the lover’s role and
The danger behind persona masks
There are many experiences that went into my training as a therapist. Part of that included training in psychodramas. The psychodrama experiences showed me how powerful the inner world
