Back in 1968 a singer named Jim Glasser wrote and recorded some of his songs. Although his record didn’t receive wide distribution, it made a big impact. The song “By the time I get to Phoenix” was picked up by Glen Campbell. One of the other songs on the album was “Woman, Woman” Campbell’s roommate, Jerry Fuller grabbed the song and used it with a group he discovered named “Gary Puckett and the Union Gap”.
The song “Woman, Woman” opens with the question, “Have you got cheating on your mind?” This is a question that haunts many marriages, like yours. The song quickly turns to a plea for understanding and forgiveness. Gary Puckett’s strong tenor vocals bring emotion into the song and create an atmosphere of compassion.
Although there’s nothing you can do about what’s already happened, there are things you can do to keep cheating from happening again. Even though things are said and done intended to leave you feeling powerless over the situation, that sensation is misleading.
If you’re the one who cheated, there are things you can do to keep that kind of thinking from taking over your mind again. As long as the fantasies about cheating are nourished, they’ll continue plaguing you.
The song also talks about how difficult it can be to remain faithful. It encourages you to stay true and strengthen the bonds in your marriage. It’s a reminder that being together is a powerful force for love and understanding, even when times seem impossible.
You may also feel helpless in countering the cheating on your mind. The longer you allow it to stay in your mind, the harder it is to control. The illusion of helplessness must be countered in order to stop cheating thinking. Besides confronting helplessness, you also need to know where you can intervene.
The struggle of mentally wanting to cheat is a profound internal conflict that can be stressful and complex. This struggle often manifests as an ongoing battle between desire and morals, where the desire for new, exciting experiences or emotional fulfillment conflicts with commitment and loyalty to a partner.
You may not know where interventions are needed or ways of doing them. There are things you can do to overcome this obstacle.
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The song “Woman, Woman” can be a great reminder of the importance of not letting cheating thoughts linger in your mind. It is an excellent reminder of the power couples have when they stay true to each other and work together towards a healthier relationship.
Keeping It Real,
Jeff
