Category: History of Affairs
Saving my marriage
In going through some of my notes, I rediscovered a notable quote. On rediscovering things, it feels like suddenly finding some buried treasure. The notable quote was “Facts don’t
Thomas Jefferson and Affairs
On July 4th your attention is focused on the founding fathers and Independence Day. Since they are put on pedestals you may not associate those influential founders with adultery
Swearing and Affairs
When it comes to the subject of swearing, you’ve probably heard that it’s something best not done. In some cases, you listened to the advice of others, allowing it
The Therapist and the Seductress
There’s a great deal you learn about people at a dinner party. It’s not just meaningless chit-chat and small talk. There’s the pre-dinner socializing cocktail conversations followed by the
Leaving out the affair material
Have you ever wondered what goes on in a therapists’ head? There have been times I’ve been tempted to write a book on the making of a therapist. I
The risk of affairs in a small town
Today, I’ll be answering a question that came in from a reader. They wanted to know whether or not office affairs happen in small towns. The answer is an
The Ups and Downs of Tolerating Celebrity Affairs
The strongest negative reactions to my blog posts happen when I dare discuss sports celebrities and their infidelities. There’s something about sports celebrities that have many of you turn
How Long does the Cheater Charade go on?
A reader recently struggling with her spouses infidelity wrote to me. She shared how her spouse had multiple addictions, several affairs along with narcissistic tendencies. She was worn out
Accusations of an Affair with a close friend
During these days of political and courtroom theatre, accusations are manufactured for effect. Things are said and accusations made for effect rather than fact finding. One of the masters
Reframing the Affair
When I hear someone mention ‘reframing an affair‘ my mind goes into action. I quickly prepare for their attempts in manipulating the situation. Although modern ‘progressive’ types talk about
